ProLife & Family Issues

Screen Shot 2021-01-29 at 3.12.18 PMClick HERE to register for free or just to learn more. My talk will be on “How to Keep Your Kids Catholic.”

I may be the oldest of the speakers with the largest family. We now have 18 great Catholic grandkids. AND, they know and defend the Faith without hesitation.

You too can raise such kids and grandkids. It takes a plan, and I will share with you the plan my wife and I developed 44 years ago when we got married.

How can we raise rebels? Isn’t “rebel” a bad thing? No, not if it is raising rebels against the Culture of Death and Relativism. Independent kids that are counter-cultural and ready to defend the teachings and morality of the Catholic Church.

Want to hear four of my teenage grandkids discuss the Catholic Truth? Check out the video below.

To join the free Men’s conference to hear my talk “Keeping Your Kids Catholic” and that of many others, click HERE.


My Resolve as our World Spins out of Control

by Steve Ray on January 23, 2021

After commenting a bit on our dismal situation in the world, a friend wrote to me this morning saying, “Please keep doing what have been doing for many years to come!”

Screen Shot 2021-01-23 at 9.21.52 AMI responded,

When we got married 44 years ago I told my good wife we had already lost our country, it was just a matter of time how fast we would slide down the hill. I had been a keen observer of philosophy, popular culture, the media and movies, education and the “intellectual” trends.

The trend was already set and I watched the “non-thinkables” quickly become “thinkable” and then accepted, then imposed, then expected, and then we were all required to praise and celebrate the things that even in my younger years were once “unthinkable”.

Abortion was just one of many evils that sprouted like an ugly weed due to this philosophical shift.

external-content.duckduckgoPut a frog in a pan of cold water and turn on the burner. Because the heat increases slowly over time, the frog does not realize the change. He does not respond but slowly is boiled to death. So it is with our country. The changes are just gradual enough that people adapt to the increasing change and in the end….

Every time we smile with a small victory it is like climbing up a sand dune when I was a boy. It seemed like for every step I climbed up I slid back down two steps. 

downloadEven when Trump was elected I viewed it as a small victory, but said to Janet, “It is only a parenthesis — it will only slow down the decline for a while, it won’t stop it.”

It’s not about who’s in or not an office, it’s about the shifting trend of the philosophy and our willingness to except evil and socialism and the denigration of human life and freedom.

Without a spectacular intervention of God (which I pray for) we have already lost our country and the freedoms we have taken for granted. I hope I am proved to be wrong, but…

As for our family, we will fight the good fight and stand our ground. We will educate, castigate, and celebrate. We will live in the life of the Lord and his victory through the cross and resurrection. The truth is the Truth and cannot be forgotten, neglected or silenced.

So, we all do what we must even though I expect it is a losing battle on this battlefield. But knowing that in the end we win the war, Janet and I intend to stay faithful with our eyes set on the last day when “all who are in the tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who have done good to the resurrection of life, and those who have done evil to the resurrection of judgment. (Jn 5:28-29).What Grandmas do

C812935F-C875-4206-972B-203FF96112E5-768x576And if we can save the lives of some babies, form the conscience of our own family and a few others, keep the flame burning, bring some souls to heaven with us, die in friendship with God, and even die as martyrs with the Creed on our lips, we will have done our part.

Alas, we are called to be faithful, not successful, as Mother Teresa said.


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Steve Ray here — I will be giving my first exclusively Pro-Life talk at this conference, “The Biblical Basis for Defending Life”

The Living ProLife Conference is an online conference with live panel discussions geared towards systematically responding to all the objections that Pro Life advocates encounter, while also providing pastoral formation for all those who want to take a stand for Life. No more than ever, the respect for the dignity of human life is threatened by political and even misleading church leaders.  We have a responsibility to educate ourselves in protecting the greatest gift God has given to us – Life at all stages!

Welcome Message from Fr. Leo Patalinghug, founder of Plating Grace


Host:   Fr. Leo Patalinghug, founder of Plating Grace
Dates:  Friday, January 22nd through Friday, January 29th, leading up to the March for Life
IMG_8856What’s Included:
– Access to all LIVE Panel Discussions

VIP Package: Only $30!*

**Ticket sales will support the ministries of the presenters and Pro Life Organizations**

The VIP Package includes 50+ presentations from Pro Life Leaders around the world, providing their expertise and insight into Pro Life issues from the moment of conception.

 Here are the topics that will be presented in the VIP Package:
What does it mean to be pro-life?
Why are people against women having a “choice”?
Life is from beginning to end and everything in between (in the proper order)
Do we actually care about women?
Reproductive rights – don’t women have them?
The role of men in making a decision about abortion
Science is on our side (is it a baby or just a cluster of cells)
How do Death Penalty, Euthanasia and Immigration, poverty fit in? Is it pro life or social justice?
What about situations of rape, incest, etc.
The effects of abortion for women and men
Pro Life Ethics (invitro, bioethics, cloning, stem cell research)
The Lies of Planned Parenthood

Dates:  The content will be available starting January 22nd, 2021 and will be accessible until             December 31, 2021.
What’s Included:
– Access to all conference talks until until December 31, 2021.
– Access to all LIVE panel discussions with our presenters
– Access to Pro-Life resources



Biden Eats and Drinks His Own Spiritual Death and Causes Scandal & Pelosi’s Archbishop Responds to her & Gomez vs. Cupich

January 21, 2021

The latest Crisis Magazine Article begins: “Yesterday morning at the grand Cathedral of St. Matthew in Washington D.C., Joe Biden ate and drank his own spiritual death. That he received the Holy Eucharist from the hands of a Cardinal of the Church adds scandal upon scandal. One radio wag called it a mass for Planned Parenthood. […]

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2 Minute Audios: Steve’s 6 Rules for Dealing with Non-Catholic Family & Friends

January 19, 2021

People always ask, “What do I say to my husband…?”  or “How do I get my kids back in the Church?  or  “I am getting no where trying to tell my friend about my Faith.” Well Steve came up with Six Rules to help you deal with non-Catholics – especially family and friends. To read […]

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President Trump’s Proclamation Today for Human Life! We will miss him until will get him back again four years from now

January 18, 2021

Every human life is a gift to the world.  Whether born or unborn, young or old, healthy or sick, every person is made in the holy image of God.  The Almighty Creator gives unique talents, beautiful dreams, and a great purpose to every person. On National Sanctity of Human Life Day, we celebrate the wonder of human […]

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What Does it Mean to be a Good Catholic Grandparent? Interesting Interview

January 14, 2021

Earlier this week I was interviewed for an hour by Fr. Robert McTeigue SJ on his show “The Catholic Current” on “Station of the Cross Radio. Our topic was about how to be a good and effective grandparent. What can we do to encourage and help our grandkids stay strong Catholics? What if things have failed […]

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The full list of President Trump’s accomplishments shows why leftists are so desperate to ‘unperson’ him

January 13, 2021

As the world focuses on the deletion of Trump’s accounts from the most prominent social media sites, LifeSite presents these lists so that Trump’s pro-life, pro-family accomplishments are not forgotten. Take a look at President Trump’s accomplishments and see why the Left hates him so much. Good article here. LifeSite News also republished my article […]

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Priests Says “Shame on those who voted for Biden!”

January 12, 2021

Couldn’t agree more!

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Know What You Are Voting For, Beware!

November 2, 2020

“I can get you anything … but then the demand.”   Beware who you are voting for and the end result. Even in 2020, some things are beyond criminal. Know what you’re voting for. — Owen W. Brennan (@OwenBrennan) November 1, 2020

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Disappointed with Bishop Barron’s Article on Catholic Voting

October 30, 2020

I just read Bishop Barron’s article/blog concerning voting, and frankly, I was very disappointed. Usually, I try to give the benefit of the doubt and avoid criticizing brothers in the Lord, especially bishops, but this was too much. He contradicts or at least minimalizes what the United States Council of Catholic Bishops said concerning the […]

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What to think about the Pope and his comments of Civil Unions for Homosexuals

October 22, 2020

This morning I had prepared to wax eloquent about the recently revealed comments by Pope Francis and the confusion and dismay they are causing with faithful Catholics and the jubilant “hurrays” coming from the  Catholics who would love to Church to fit the modern world. Remember that GK Chesterton said, “The Catholic Church is the […]

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Bishops Saluting Hitler?

October 21, 2020

Yes, many bishops in the last century supported, saluted and remained silent in the face of the inhumanity perpetrated by Adolf Hitler. And even now, there are bishops who support a political party who slaughters innocent babies and euthanasia. (List of cardinals, bishops, priests who are warning Catholics about pro-abortion Biden-Harris ticket) Sad to say […]

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If Slavery were legal, slavery would be a single issue for voters

October 16, 2020

Today I will pre-record a radio show with Fr. McTeigue SJ, on The Stations of the Cross Radio network. The discussion is entitled “In Defense of Single Issue Voting.” I will make the case that if today one political party held slavery as legal and the other opposed it, that slavery would become a single-issue […]

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Fr. Frank Pavone’s List (LINK FIXED): The President Has Kept His Promises – And More

October 10, 2020

We are proud to thank President Donald Trump for the numerous accomplishments of his first term, too many to list here, but including the following. See more at and – Satisfaction with the state of the nation reached a 15-year high according to Gallup, and nearly twice the number of people think it’s heading […]

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You Laity are Very Important and Should be Involved Reminding Priests and Bishops

October 3, 2020

We Catholics often think we should sit back and let the bishops and priests do everything. We should look to them to save our Church. But Archbishop Fulton Sheen has a word of exhortation for us: “Who is going to save our Church? Do not look to the priests. Do not look to the bishops. […]

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