IMG_8860We’ve corresponded and known about each other but yesterday we met at the South Carolina Men’s Conference. I love converts and his story is especially interesting, converting from an Anglican priest in England to a Catholic priest in South Carolina.

He’s finishing up a book and the Magi and we discussed plans for a pilgrimage together to the Holy Land in the next year or two.

IMG_8870I spoke Friday to the Women’s Conference and Saturday to the Men’s Conference. It was especially good to see what God is doing with Catholic men around the country.  Change a few good men and you can change the world. The conference took place at Prince of Peace in Greenville NC which is a marvelous church and very active parish.


Met Governor Huckabee in Israel

by Steve Ray on February 18, 2017

IMG_7648We met this good man in Israel today and he took some with us.

Gov. Mike Huckabee does much to help steer our country in ways of morality and conservatism.

We thanked him for all the good work that he does for our country – and to keep up the good work. We all applauded him.


Dear Friend Dcn. Alex Jones, RIP

by Steve Ray on January 15, 2017

no_price_too_high_28386.1405464063.386.513__49407.1422421951.500.500I remember the call. The voice on the other end of the line said, “Are you Steve Ray?” I said, “Yes, why?” The voice said, “Of all the men in all the world I need to talk with you.”

In response I said, “Who are you and why do you need to speak with me?” I ended up meeting Alex Jones by phone that night. We had lunch together on the following Wednesday. As a Pentecostal preacher in Detroit Michigan he was studying the worship patterns of the early Church and was struck by the Church Fathers.

He had heard that I had converted from Evangelical Protestantism to the Catholic Church. He said he didn’t know anyone else who had done that and wanted to talk with me. (Read the story on Ignatius Insight).

pasted image 640x480That started a monthly meeting at Big Boy Restaurant in Southfield Michigan where he peppered me with questions for over a year of meetings. Every meeting was a delight. His sense of adventure, honesty and inquiry was a joy to me. He reminded me of a little kid at Christmas (a good thing said with all respect). He was so excited. He had a love for the truth and a dedication to follow the truth no matter what. That is why his book is entitled No Price Too High, and he did pay a big price to become Catholic.

Screen Shot 2017-01-15 at 8.04.56 PMHe brought his wife Donna to our house and she confronted my wife Janet who graciously and calmly answered her questions. I remember her saying she was so frustrated that Janet didn’t “fight back” but just loved Donna and calmly responded. Donna is a very precious soul and a genuine lady through and through. Her conversion brought us all great joy when she finally “Ah ha!” She saw it!

We became very good friends. My wife was Donna’s sponsor into the Catholic Church and I wrote the Preface to his book “No Price Too High.” My only regret is that our lives were both so busy that we have not seen much of them over the last few years. He was ministering to several parishes in Detroit and traveling the world speaking. You can see his website here. His short biography is here.

Screen Shot 2017-01-15 at 7.45.27 PMHe died in the grace of God as a deacon in the Catholic Church and I could not be prouder to have been his friend and brother in Christ. I look forward to spending time together in eternity. May God grant grace to his wife Donna and his three sons and their families.

For the DVD story of his conversion (in which I had the honor to introduce him) you can visit Nineveh’s Crossing or click on the image to the left.

I was told he had trouble breathing on Saturday. The doctors discovered he had no white blood cells, an indication he may have had a previously undetected leukemia. He had several heart attacks Saturday and died around 10:30 PM. I hope I am correct in all that but don’t know more. I’m told Donna and his family is all together and doing well in the Lord.

I don’t know the funeral arrangements or plans. When I find out I will update this page with the information.


Passover Lamb: A True Story

October 28, 2016

Contributed by Jesse Ray a while ago but worthy of reposting… I arrived on the scene with my gun and stoically loaded in some self-defense rounds (although I was clearly not in danger). I did not lavish the idea of slaughtering a lamb, but my friend and new-farmer, Pat, called and sheepishly asked for some help. […]

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What in the World is Patrick Coffin Doing?

October 2, 2016

Patrick Coffin has been the host of Catholic Answers Live for seven and a half years. He raised the show to stellar heights but September 30th was his last day. He is leaving Catholic Answers for new ventures in media. You can watch his 3-minute video for an overview of his new media projects. It might […]

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Friends and Family: Our 2016 Trip to India

July 29, 2016

What wonderful folks here in Kerala India! What a joyous two weeks. Heading home on Wednesday.   … Powered by Cincopa Podcast Hosting for Business solution.Final Days in India 2016flash 16cameramake Appleheight 480dir: 100alt: 12lat: 10.290864long: 76.337622orientation 1camerasoftware 9.3.3originaldate 7/29/2016 4:13:53 PMwidth 640cameramodel iPhone 6sflash 16cameramake Appleheight 640orientation 1camerasoftware Adobe Photoshop CS4 originaldate 7/25/2016 7:49:45 […]

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An Untimely Death: Fr. Shane Tharp, my dear friend, RIP

October 17, 2015

One of the most brilliant man I’ve ever known. And intellect of my new mental ability, develop faith, tremendous humor and a great Catholic priest. He has been a chaplain with us and pilgrimages many times, and I’ve done parish missions for him several times and beyond all that he was a dear and trusted […]

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A Letter that Brought Tears of Joy to my Eyes. Hope you enjoy it too.

August 21, 2015

UPDATE: I was able to stop at ave Maria Radio today and meet Erik. What a handsome gentle giant. We hugged and talked for a while and I was delighted. ************************ “I’m sure you get tons of emails about how you’ve touched peoples lives. I would have liked to tell you this story in person, […]

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Bishop Conley writes about my Turkish Convert Friend Okan

February 27, 2015

If you read my blog regularly you remember that a friend of mine for over 15 years converted to Christianity and the Catholic Church about a month or two ago. He came here to my house and received the Rite of Election. You can read the post here with pictures.  Turkey is 99.9% Muslim so […]

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My Friend from Istanbul becomes a Christian!

February 1, 2015

Okan and I have worked together for 15 years with filming projects, pilgrimages and more in Turkey. He was born and raised in Turkey which is 99.9% Muslim.  Over the years I kept telling Okan, “Some day you will be a Christian.” In November 2014 while in Turkey on our St. Paul Mediterranean Cruise, Okan […]

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Our Friend Fr. Benedict Groeschel died Yesterday

October 4, 2014

It is with sadness that I mention that father Benedict died last night. Janet and I had gotten very fond of him and spent time in his retreat center. We will treasure the times we spent with him. Because of his habit and his beard I told him one time that every time I saw […]

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Help Tom Peters the Papist

November 14, 2013

From and friend and fellow worker with the great young man Tom Peters: On a warm summer night four months ago, I received some terrible news.  As I was preparing to go to sleep that July night, my phone vibrated on my bedside table. A new text message. Then another. Then another. Something was urgent. […]

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With Friends on the Sea

November 5, 2013

It is very infrequent that I get to see some of my best friends since they are as busy as me. But once in a while we are fortunate and are speakers together at the same conferences. This time we are on a Caribbean Cruise and one of the great joys is to be with […]

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My Friend Al Kresta: Story of an Unsung Hero and Modern-day Prophet

September 30, 2013

This article is a great read and inspires one to hope for the faith and country. Al Kresta and I have been good friends since 1983 when I first met him upon my return from living in Switzerland. Al was dressed in knickers and a goutee at the time, playing the part of my then […]

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Help for a Good Catholic Friend Looking for a Job to Support his Homeschooling Family

August 3, 2013

I have been friends with Dan Grajek for twenty years. He is exceptionally creative, a great Catholic writer and apologist and his kids are following in their parents’ footsteps. He just lost his job and I am posting his request and his resumé. If you know of any job possibilities, please let him know. He […]

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Blast from the Past: Wow, Time Sure Changes Us!

March 22, 2013

I was just told about this picture on FaceBook. The picture was taken shortly after I had first become a Catholic in 1994. One witness says this picture was taken in 1997. Time sure changes us :-) This “Gang of Four” spoke at an apologetics conference in Dearborn Michigan sponsored by Thy Faith Inc. (Gary […]

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